It seems as if the month of October focuses on many issues. It happens to be Domestic Violence Awareness Month. I think it also ties in with Respect Life Month, because we should respect the lives of all people.
The Catholic bishops of the United States have spoken out against domestic violence and have given their support to victims of domestic violence. In 2002, the bishops issued a statement, When I Call for Help: A Pastoral Response to Domestic Violence Against Women.
This statement can be found on the bishop’s website at www.usccb.org and is well worth reading.
Violence is never justified
The bishops say, “As pastors of the Catholic Church in the United States, we state as clearly and strongly as we can that violence against women, inside or outside the home, is never justified. Violence in any form — physical, sexual, psychological, or verbal — is sinful; often, it is a crime as well.
“We have called for a moral revolution to replace a culture of violence. We acknowledge that violence has many forms, many causes, and many victims — men as well as women.”
The bishops point out that domestic violence is often shrouded in silence. People outside the family hesitate to interfere, even when they suspect abuse is occurring. Even extended family member deny that abuse exists.
However, if you suspect that abuse is happening, be available to talk with the abused person, or suggest that they meet with someone they trust: a relative, friend, parish priest, or any minister. It’s important that the abused person does not feel alone.
How to get help
If you or a person you know is involved in domestic violence, the bishops suggest that people contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline, which provides crisis intervention and referrals to local service providers.
Call 800-799-SAFE (7233) or 800-787-3224 (TTY). For more information, go to www.thehotline.org Hotline advocates are available to chat online, Monday to Friday, 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. CST.