"And they brought to him a man who was deaf and had an impediment in his speech . . ." (Mk 7:32a). I am the parent of deaf children. When I ask them to tidy up, they are deaf. Miraculously, they hear when I whisper an offer of ice cream. I too have selective deafness. The other day I was immersed in writing when a friend stopped by to talk. He proceeded to describe his recent doctor visit, while I interjected the occasional "uh-huh" here and head nod there as I simultaneously continued typing.
Thinking I was doing a good job of multitasking, I looked up and asked whether he had received the results of a major medical test he had recently taken. He gave me a long look and explained that he had been telling me about the test results for the past five minutes. In this week's gospel, the deaf man's friends "besought (Jesus) to lay his hand upon him" (Mk 7:32b). My friend probably wished Jesus would do the same thing to me. Of course, this wasn't the only time I've needed Jesus to heal my ears. My family tells me all the time that I fail to hear them. While my children and wife talk, I have been known to nod, grunt, and pretend to listen. I am often deaf to the storm of child-created chaos swirling around me, including the occasional shout of pain as one daughter collides with another, with an inanimate object, or with an insult hurled at her by one of her sisters. So how can Christ, the Word of God, open my ears? For one thing, Jesus's life gives me hope that I am not the only one with a hearing problem. The deaf man, the people of Israel, and the apostles also had a hard time hearing properly. Chief among their failures was a single-minded focus on their own needs and expectations. They were too busy listening for what they wanted to hear to listen to the words of life God wanted to share with them. Many of Jesus' followers were able to hear what the Word of God was saying only after the resurrection. Now as then, the Word of God is here, speaking to me through members of His body, the Church. In the Scriptures, I can listen to Jesus' word to me for the day. In the Eucharist, I can hear Him offering Himself: "This is my body," and "This is my blood," calling me to join Him by sharing my life with those around me in sacrificial love. Jesus wants me to hear that I am called to carry my cross and freely give myself - not only when it is convenient or satisfying, but when I am in the midst of a book, a movie, or bad mood. And when I get it all wrong, as I did when I ignored my friend, I have the chance to listen to God's words of forgiveness and start over again.
If I am trying to listen carefully to Christ throughout the day, I am much more likely to listen to others when they need me. When I start the day asking Jesus to help me hear, I find that he "opens my ears" to the needs of those around me and to the lessons I need to learn every day. Brad Klingele, father of five, is the RCIA coordinator for St. Paul University Catholic Center and director of Young Adult Ministry for the Diocese of Madison. St. Paul's Web site is www.stpaulscc.org
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