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You duped me O Lord, and I let myself
be duped

photo of Kathy Raab
Living the Scriptures 

with St. Paul University 
Catholic Center 

Kathy Raab 

I'm in a chess game with the Lord. The only problem is that I hate chess.

Give me a crossword puzzle or Sudoku - a few clues and I can figure out the answer. Not chess. Chess requires concentration, focus, endurance. Not my game. Too easy to be duped.

I've been playing this game for 43 years now. I anticipate His next move and try to preempt that with my own.

22nd Sunday
in Ordinary Time
(August 28, 2005)
Jer 20:7-9
Ps 63:2, 3-4, 5-6, 8-9
Rom 12:1-2
Mt 16:21-27

Every trial I've been through - serious family health issues, divorce, depression, loneliness, doubt - each time I go through periods where I think I've let Him dupe me again. He hasn't been supporting me, has abandoned me.

But each time I've come out the winner. I've become stronger and more resilient and a better person. Yes, He duped me. I believed He wasn't there, but He was.

But I'm still recovering from the biggest dupe of all. No new trials, really. Everything was going well for me. I was handling things. Things were going so well, in fact, that I could take time to concentrate on my faith.

The more time I spent questioning, the more questions I had. In fact, there were so many questions and doubts that I thought I was better off on my own without so many rules and structures. Just me, practicing my faith as I wanted to, where I wanted to at the time I wanted to. It felt good.

I didn't have to be ready to practice Catholicism at the 9 a.m. Mass. I didn't have to attend Holy Day Masses. I didn't have to follow the guidelines. I could think for myself. No more man-made rules, only God-made rules. Freedom!

This chess game was going to be easy. He showed up with only one playing piece - the King! Unprotected, open, vulnerable. He had taught me to build up some walls, some protection, some faith in the playing pieces around me. I had the full set of playing pieces and He had only one. This game was over. I won!

Duped again. I let myself become detached. The despair from losing faith is greater than any other despair or trial I've been through. It makes you think in ways you've never thought before.

Maybe I really do need my Catholic faith. Maybe God wants me to have questions and doubts and disagreements with His church. Maybe He loves me despite all my shortcomings. Maybe He has the focus, concentration, and endurance to see this game through to the end.

Reflection questions

• Have I let myself be duped into believing that being a follower would be easy?

• In what ways am I being called to be a prophet, like Jeremiah? How will I respond?

There He sits, King on one end, He hasn't moved. Steady and open as ever. Maybe He isn't duping me this time. Maybe it's for real.

I'm still trying to get the rules down and figure out His strategy. Maybe one day I'll figure out we're playing His game and not mine.

I don't want to be duped again.


Kathy Raab is operations manager at St. Paul University Catholic Center on the University of Wisconsin-Madison campus. She, her husband, and four children live in Madison, where she also runs her own business.

St. Paul's Web site is www.stpaulscc.org


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Faith Alive!

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In a Nutshell

  • The new Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Church makes Catholicism's social doctrine relevant to changing times and circumstances.

  • The "Holiness Code" of Leviticus 17-25 provides a model for respecting the rights and dignity of every individual. It demands that we treat one another as God treats us.

  • Catholic thought sees a fundamental equality among humans that individuals and societies must address.


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  •  Food for Thought
     
    The church "invites all people to recognize in everyone -- near and far, known and unknown, and above all in the poor and the suffering -- a brother or sister for whom Christ died," says the new Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Church (No. 105).

    In that way, the compendium expresses a basic of church social teaching -- that for Christ's followers, "others" are really "ours." To think that others can be outside the realm of Christian concern and care is to be mistaken.

    The Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Church was made public in October 2004 by the Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace. The compendium "is proposed as an incentive for dialogue with all who sincerely desire the good of mankind," it says.

    With the compendium, the church intends to propose "a humanism that is up to the standards of God's plan of love in history" -- a humanism "capable of creating a new social, economic and political order, founded on the dignity and freedom of every human person," the text says (No. 19).

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    What is it? The Compendium of the Social Doctrine
    of the Church
    By Father W. Thomas Faucher

    Catholic News Service

    I have two brothers who are avid baseball fans. One lives in Philadelphia and goes to Phillies games. The other lives in northern Idaho and travels across the state of Washington to cheer on the Seattle Mariners. I like baseball and enjoy games when I can get to them, but there is a difference between their passion for the game and my simple enjoyment of it.

    My brothers want and maybe even need to know more about baseball than I do. At Christmas they exchange books on the history of baseball, the great figures of baseball and the unique aspects of the baseball story. If someone were to issue an ongoing "compendium" of baseball, a book which would not explain the foundations of the game but simply keep up with all the events and updates in the game, they would be the first in line to buy it.

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    Charity up close
    and personal
    By Christopher Carstens, Ph.D.

    Catholic News Service

    He was successful in business and a generous man. He wrote substantial checks to multiple charities. He sat on the boards of international foundations working for social causes across several continents.

    She was Mother Teresa. And she asked him, "Do you feed the poor?"

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    Do the biblical prophets still speak to us?
    By Lawrence Boadt, CSP

    Catholic News Service

    The church has developed an enormous body of social teaching that guides major pastoral efforts directed to the modern world.

    Central to this teaching are a number of basic principles: (1) concern for the rights and dignity of all human beings; (2) efforts to provide social support for the most underprivileged poor, ethnically despised and working people; (3) working toward a world free of fear and grinding poverty; (4) cooperation among nations to solve social and economic injustice that derives from multinational institutions and national exploitations; and (5) working toward world peace.

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     Faith in the Marketplace
     
    This Week's Discussion Point:

    In your own words, why does the church promote social justice?

     
      Selected Response From Readers:  
     
    Copyright © 2005 Catholic News Service/U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops



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    This week's readings

    Week of Aug. 28 - Sept. 3, 2005

    Sunday, Aug. 28, 2005
    Reading I: Jer 20:7-9
    Reading II: Rom 12:1-2
    Gospel: Mt 16:21-27

    Monday, Aug. 29, 2005
    Reading I: 1 Thes 4:13-18
    Gospel: Mk 6:17-29

    Tuesday, Aug. 30, 2005
    Reading I: 1 Thes 5:1-6, 9-11
    Gospel: Mt 4:31-37

    Wednesday, Aug. 31, 2005
    Reading I: Col 1:1-8
    Gospel: Lk 4:38-44

    Thursday, Sept. 1, 2005
    Reading I: Col 1:9-14
    Gospel: Lk 5:1-11

    Friday, Sept. 2, 2005
    Reading I: Col 1:15-20
    Gospel: Lk 5:33-39

    Saturday, Sept. 3, 2005
    Reading I: Col 1:21-23
    Gospel: Lk 6:1-5


    Pope's Prayer Intentions

    August General Intention

    World Youth Day. That World Youth Day may inspire in young people the desire to meet Christ and find in Him the guide of their own lives.

    August Mission Intention

    Mission students in Rome. That the priests, religious, seminarians, and laity from mission countries who are completing their formation in Rome may find their stay in the "Eternal City" a time of spiritual enrichment.



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    Prayer on loss of St. Raphael Cathedral

    O God,
    whose word is like a fire,
    who spoke to your servant Moses in the burning bush and who led your people Israel out of bondage
    with a cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night:
    hear your people as we call upon you both in gratitude and sorrow.

    We thank you for the safety
    of the Cathedral staff and parishioners,
    for those who fought the fire
    and for all who live and work in nearby buildings.

    May this fire purify your Church in the Diocese of Madison
    so that our hearts may burn with the knowledge
    that your Church is built upon the bedrock of your Son, Jesus Christ.

    Through the intercession of Saint Raphael,
    your messenger of healing,
    may we find comfort in our affliction
    and the courage to continue proclaiming
    the Good News of Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever.
    Amen.



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