At Mass we sometimes hear Old Testament readings that speak about the tensions between the Israelites and the neighboring Canaanites. The reason was simple: the Israelites worshipped the true Lord while the Canaanites worshipped false gods - the Baals. Baal worship was a far cry from what the Israelites had inherited from God on Mt. Sinai. For besides the general sexual immorality that surrounded the temple cult of Baal, Canaanite worship practice frequently included child sacrifice as an attempt to obtain the favor of material wealth. Whenever the Israelites would stray to Baal worship, God would send prophets calling the Israelites to honor their covenant with the Lord, knock down their altars to Baal, and cease from immolating their children. Similarities in cultureWe could stand to hear this same advice today, for not only are we awash in immoral sexual practice, but we also live at a time when many people see no difficulty sacrificing children in order to gain material wealth. We see this most commonly in couples who choose to forgo children to maintain a wealthier lifestyle. True, this action does not carry the same horrible stench of actual child sacrifice to Baal, but the motive is the same and the means are similar, even if people do not realize it. By contracepting they are in effect saying, "We wish to sacrifice children to satisfy our desire for wealth and pleasure." Minimal responsibilityForty years ago contraception was primarily used by married adults because of a desire not to have what they considered "too many" children, while today large populations of people use contraception because of their desire for NO children. This has turned the pursuit of happiness into the freedom to seek sensual pleasure and wealth with minimal responsibility to family, community, or country. Instead of a culture centered on home and family, we now live in a culture that caters to the desires of self-centered egoists. Children are seen as burdens and are moved to the margins of society; increasingly we live our lives without them. Sounds all rather depressing, doesn't it? Fortunately for the United States, many young people are consciously rejecting a life centered on personal pleasure in order to find happiness in the pursuit of virtue, and there are few more naturally virtuous acts than sacrificing individual goals in order to marry and start a family. And thank God for them, lest we face the dilemma of countries such as Russia and Japan that now face serious social difficulties due to their falling populations. Rewards of familyOne of my greatest rewards is working with young people who have made a conscious decision to marry young and start what they hope will be a large family. Are they a little naive? Of course! I was a little naive when I entered the seminary, but all great adventures require a step into the unknown. And soon enough they will experience great rewards for the sacrifices they are making - sacrifices that can be made joyfully by those who love and follow Christ. As a parish priest, I have spent many hours sitting around dining room tables speaking with brothers and sisters who are planning the funeral of their father or mother. While there are always tears, the ones who laugh and cry the most are those from families with parents who were most generous in having children and who placed them above all their own desires and material possessions. Fr. Eric Nielsen is pastor of St. Paul University Catholic Center in Madison. This column is syndicated by www.OneMoreSoul.com
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