In late 15th Century Germany, young Albert Durer agreed to work in the dangerous mines so that he could earn enough money to send his talented brother through art school. When Albrecht, his brother, finished art school, he would reciprocate by sending Albert through art school. However, the four years that he worked in the mines were cruel to Albert. He broke every finger in his hands at least once. As a result his hands became so crippled by arthritis that his dream of becoming an artist died. Now he could not even hold a paintbrush. Sacrificial loveIn a Christ-like way Albert had given his life so that his brother could live his dream. To express his thanks for his brother's sacrificial love, in 1508 Albrecht sketched Albert's abused hands with palms together and fingers extended skyward. Albrecht named his painting of love simply "Hands." The entire world almost immediately opened their hearts to this great masterpiece. But perhaps urged by the Holy Spirit, the people of the world re-baptized it with the name "Praying Hands." The name is appropriate because especially through his hands, Albert offered his work as a daily prayer of love for his brother. Perhaps this is why a picture of "Praying Hands" is on our diocesan Web site under "Prayers." Work as prayerSince we are close to Labor Day, if we have not already done so, perhaps we can consider making our work a prayer. We can make our work a prayer by offering our best to Jesus at our job, at volunteer positions, at home, or wherever we work. The book called The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence is kind of a classic on making our work a prayer. Brother Lawrence joined the Carmelite order and became a full member in 1642. He fully expected to spend his days in prayer and meditation. Instead his superior assigned him to do the cooking and cleanup. For 10 years he hated this work. But one day while working, he experienced an intense awareness of the presence of God. This grace enabled him to make his work a prayer. In her book, Having a Mary heart in a Martha world, Joanna Weaver writes that after his conversion, Brother Lawrence decided to do everything well for the love of God. When he did this, he found his own kitchen service a joy and an avenue to a closer walk with God. Brother Lawrence described work as prayer, "The time of business does not with me differ from the time of prayer. And in the noise and clatter of my kitchen, while several persons are calling for different things at the same time, I possess God in as great a tranquility as if I were on my knees at the Blessed Sacrament." After his deeper conversion Brother Lawrence's working love made his washing dishes an act of worship. Joanna Weaver writes that when we joyfully offer our work as prayer, something wonderful happens. Sinks turn into sanctuaries, mops swab holy ground, and daily chores become opportunities to express our gratitude. Add a little chocolateIn the book Love Adds a Little Chocolate, Linda Andersen writes, "Duty can pack an adequate sack lunch, but love may decide to enclose a little love note inside . . . Obligation sends the children to bed on time, but love tucks the corners in around their necks and passes out kisses and hugs (even to teenagers) . . . duty gets offended quickly if it is not appreciated but love learns to laugh a lot and to work for the sheer joy of doing it. Obligation can pour a glass of milk, but love quite often adds a little chocolate!" I suggest that the above examples of love are ways that Jesus lived his life. Again and again he went beyond the call of duty and acted out of love. His work became his prayer of love not only in the carpenter shop, but also in his work of healing, preaching, and proclaiming the kingdom. Let us pray for the grace to imitate him. Fr. Don Lange is a pastor emeritus in the Diocese of Madison.
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Imagine Adam's state of mind when he awoke to the sight of the first woman. The deepest desire of his heart is to give himself away in love to another person "like himself," and he has just finished naming billions of animals and found no one. So what does he say?
"At last, you are the one! You are bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh" (see Gn 2:23). That is, "At last, a person like myself that I can love."
How does Adam know that she's the one he can love? Remember that they were naked. It was their bodies that revealed the spiritual truth of their persons. In their nakedness they discovered what John Paul II calls the "nuptial meaning of the body," that is, "the [body's] capacity of expressing love: that love precisely in which the person becomes a gift and - by means of this gift fulfills the very meaning of his being and existence."
Adam looked at himself; he looked at Eve. He realized this profound reality: "We go together. God made us for each other. I can give myself to you, and you can give yourself to me, and we can live in a life-giving communion of love" - the image of God, marriage.
That was the sentiment of sexual desire as God created it and as they experienced it: to make a gift of themselves to each other in the image of God. This is why they were naked and felt no shame (see Gn 2:25). There's no shame in loving as God loves, only the experience of joy, peace, and a deep knowledge of human goodness.
God had told Adam that he was free to eat from any tree in the garden except the "tree of the knowledge of good and evil." If he did, he would die (see Gn 2:17). In the symbolism of biblical language, here we see God drawing a line that humanity is not free to cross. God alone knows what is best for us. As creatures, we must trust in God's providence and not seek to determine good and evil for ourselves. If we do, we will die.
Here's an analogy. Suppose you just purchased a new car and are pulling into the gas station to fill it up for the first time. The sticker by the gas tank reads "unleaded gas only."
Now, the person that designed the car knows it inside and out. He knows what's best for it. It would be foolish to say, "I don't care what the manufacturer says. I'm stickin' diesel in here." If you did so, you would have some major car troubles.
Just as it is with the car, the only way our lives will "run" the way they're meant to run is if we live according to the Designer's plan. The sticker on the car isn't meant to limit our freedom but to facilitate our freedom in making good choices. It's the same with God's commands. They serve our freedom.
True freedom is not to do whatever I want. True freedom is to do whatever's good, whatever's in keeping with the truth of our humanity. As Jesus said, it's the truth that sets us free (see Jn 8:32).
Christopher West is a research fellow and faculty member of the Theology of the Body Institute in West Chester, Pa. His column is syndicated by www.OneMoreSoul.com and reprinted from his book Good News About Sex and Marriage: Honest Questions and Answers About Catholic Teaching (St. Anthony Messenger Press).
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