Our age is quick to express appreciation for the unitive meaning of the sexual act but has little understanding of the goodness of the procreative meaning of the sexual act. The modern age tends to treat babies as burdens and not as gifts. We often speak of the "fear of pregnancy" - a very curious phrase. A fear of poverty or nuclear holocaust or tyranny is understandable but why a fear of pregnancy? We speak about "accidental pregnancies" as if getting pregnant were like getting hit by a car - some terrible accident has happened to us. But the truth is that if a pregnancy results from an act of sexual intercourse, this means that something has gone right with an act of sexual intercourse, not that something has gone wrong. CommitmentIn our society we have lost sight of the fundamental truth that if you are not ready for babies, you are not ready for sexual intercourse. We have lost sight of the fact that sexual intercourse, making love, and making babies are inherently connected and for good reason. In our times, sexual relations are treated casually; no great commitment is implied in having sexual intercourse with another; babies are treated as an unwelcome intrusion on the sexual act. The Church opposes this attitude and insists that sexual intercourse and having children are intimately connected; that sexual intercourse implies a great commitment, that children are an inherent part of that commitment, and that both commitment and children are wonderful gifts. Fertility not a diseaseIt is good to keep in mind that fertility is a great good: to be fertile is a state of health for an adult person. Women now take a "pill" to thwart their fertility, as if fertility were a disease against which we need a cure. Contraception treats the woman's body as if there were something wrong with it. The use of contraception suggests that God made a mistake in the way that He designed the body and that we must correct His error. In an age where we have become very wary of dumping pollutants into the environment it is ironic that we are so willing to dump pollutants into our bodies. The health risks of contraception to women are considerable. Why do women expose themselves to such risks when natural methods of family planning are both safe and effective? Let us not fail to mention that many forms of contraception are abortifacients; they work by causing an early term abortion. Rather than inhibiting ovulation, they work by preventing the fertilized egg, the tiny new human being, from implanting in the wall of the uterus. The IUD works in this fashion, as do most forms of the pill (on occasion), Norplant, Depo-Provera, and the "patch." Love, not warJust think of the words for contraception. Contraception means "against the beginning" - here against the beginning of a new life. So a contracepting couple is participating in an act that is designed to bring about new life and they are acting against that new life. Or they put their barrier methods in place - for "protection" as if they were making war, not love. Or they use a spermicide - to kill the sperm. This is an act of love? Lovemaking should be a most wonderful act of affirmation, a tremendous "yes" to another person, a way of conveying to another that he or she is wonderful, and completely accepted; this is conveyed by making a total gift of one's self to another. The contracepting lover says "I want to give myself to you but not to the extent of sharing my fertility with you." Professor Janet E. Smith is the Fr. Michael J. McGivney Chair of Life Ethics at Sacred Heart Major Seminary in Detroit, Mich. These columns, syndicated by www.OneMoreSoul.com, are excerpts of a longer work by Smith.
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Would you be surprised if your grown children told you they wanted to learn more about the rosary? I certainly was.
One daughter told me that she was sending a rosary book to each of her sisters because they wanted to pray the rosary, but didn't know how. They had all been educated in Catholic grade schools 35 to 40 years ago, and they didn't know how to say the rosary? How did that happen?
Then one day my daughter Kris came home from her travels with a book she had purchased called The Rosary, Prayer by Prayer, How and Why We Pray the Christ-Centered Rosary of the Blessed Mother by Mary K. Doyle. She was excited to share it with me, but when I saw how basic it was, I wondered about it.
I discovered that it included meditations for all of the mysteries, including the newest ones, the Luminous Mysteries.
I found many other delights in this book, especially the beautiful art work by Joseph Canella, who is the author's son. I learned this when I phoned Ms. Doyle, who lives in Geneva, Ill. It turns out she experienced the same thing I did when her adult children admitted they didn't know how to say the rosary.
"I did an informal survey," she told me, "and I discovered that less than one percent of practicing Catholics knew how to say the rosary, but were ashamed to admit it and ask for help."
The book was published in 2006 by 3E Press of Geneva, Ill. and is available from Amazon.com and also direct from her Web site: www.3epress.com with a credit card for $26.95 hard cover or $19.95 soft cover.
In our parish we have been running a study group using another book on the rosary, Mystery Stories, A Journey Through The Rosary by James Carney, a Madison author. This is a hefty, 404-page book that offers a You-Are-There kind of story for each mystery. Unfortunately for the author, it was published in 2000, thus missing the new Luminous Mysteries.
Each mystery gets its own chapter, and this is followed by a list of 10 "Questions for Reflection." This makes for an excellent study guide for individuals or groups.
An added interest to me was a thorough rendering of the history of the rosary, dating back to the years before Christ when religions tied knots in ropes to keep count of their required prayers.
Also, Carney tackles some of the debatable issues such as: Joseph's relationship with Mary, the question of Jesus' brothers and sisters, the star of Bethlehem, etc., in his "Commentaries," always presenting the church's arguments in a scholarly fashion.
Carney's Mystery Stories was published by Crown of Mary Publishing Company in 2000. It is available through Amazon.com for $24.95 or directly from the author for $9.95 by writing to James Carney, 5 Essex Ct., Madison, WI 53713.
"Grandmom" likes hearing from other senior citizens who enjoy aging at P.O. Box 216, Fort Atkinson, WI 53538.
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The recent decision by China's government-sponsored Patriotic Catholic Association (PCA) to ordain and install bishops whose nominations had not been approved by the Pope has, according to press reports, put the possibility of diplomatic relations between the Vatican and Beijing into the deep freeze.
Why, though, did anyone think a real thaw was underway in the first place?
Perhaps this misperception was due in part to some wishful thinking (and subsequent leaking) on the part of senior Vatican officials, who regard full diplomatic relations with the People's Republic of China (PRC) as, primo, a good thing in itself and, secondo, the key to seizing the opportunities for evangelization that will be available when China opens itself fully to the world.
Both propositions are questionable. Under current circumstances, establishing full diplomatic relations with the PRC means transferring the Holy See embassy to Beijing from Taiwan - which just happens to be home to the first Chinese democracy in five millennia. What would such a move do to the Catholic Church's hard-earned (and well-deserved) reputation as the premier moral force behind the contemporary human rights revolution? And what would such a potential dent in the Church's image (whether fair or unfair) do to the Church's prospects in a future Chinese free market of religions, into which evangelical Protestants, Mormons, and others who won't bear the burden of entanglement with the communist regime, will eventually flood?
Is Pope Benedict XVI taking a harder line on China than his predecessor? That's another media misperception, and it's rooted, I expect, in historical myopia. In 1870, Holland, Belgium, Great Britain, the United States, Canada, Australia, and certain missionary territories were the only places in the world where the Church could appoint bishops without interference from (or, as the euphemism had it, the "cooperation" of) the state.
For the past 125 years, recovering the libertas ecclesiae, the Church's freedom to order its internal life without state interference, has been a prime concern of Vatican diplomacy. Different accommodations have had to be made at different times, but the Church has never conceded to the state a right-of-appointment of bishops that is independent of the papacy.
Perhaps an accommodation of a sort could be offered to the present regime in Beijing - but its acceptance seems unlikely, given the regime's manifest determination to keep what it regards as the genie of religious freedom firmly corked in a state-sealed bottle. That determination, not any "hardening" on the part of Benedict XVI, is the heart of the matter today, as it was during the pontificate of John Paul II. And until that changes, nothing dramatic is possible.
Some light was cast on the complexity of all this during a recent conversation I had with one of China's most prominent Catholic laymen (who, for reasons of prudence, must remain anonymous). He confirmed that there had been a significant grassroots rapprochement between members of the PCA and members of the underground Church, as he confirmed that many PCA bishops had made submissions to Rome and now prayed publicly for, and in communion with, the Pope.
This reconciliation, which was part of John Paul II's China strategy, is detested by the Chinese regime; the recent episcopal ordinations and installations, which took place under duress, were in part an effort to reinsert wedges between PCA Catholics and underground Catholics.
My interlocutor made two other important points. First, in his view (which he believes Pope Benedict shares), no deal with the Beijing regime is better than a bad deal - and a bad deal, in these circumstances, means a deal in which the government's role in the appointment of bishops is unacceptably intrusive.
Second, and despite the regime's ritual rants about Christianity-and-colonialism, Catholicism is immensely attractive in China because the Chinese people associate Christianity with modernization, with a more decent society, and with a better way of life.
All of which prompts the thought that a Vatican that "thinks in centuries" can well afford to bide its time in dealing with a regime that is only 57 years old - a regime that, on my friend's analysis, may unravel in the next decade or two.
George Weigel is a senior fellow of the Ethics and Public Policy Center in Washington, D.C.
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