MailbagCatholic Church has got it right with celibate priesthoodTo the editor: Ardeen Goetzen, a former Mennonite minister, did his thesis on the subject of divorce among Mennonite ministers and their wives. His conclusion was that "The Catholic Church has got it right."
His research led him to understand the frustration of some Mennonite ministers' wives with their husbands' responses to their calls about their congregation needs. The wife felt there was a conflicting call to respond to their own family's and marriage's needs. These conflicts led in some cases to divorce. We have an important role for married men - to be Godly husbands and fathers and if they are called, qualified, and committed - to also serve God's people in the permanent diaconate in the Roman Catholic Church. It would serve us well if we prayed for our priests who do serve us as single, chaste pastors of the flock. We pray that they realize as Pope John Paul II said about marriage being a lifelong work in progress, the priesthood, too, is a lifelong work in progress. Many married people are attacked, deceived, distracted, and tempted to consider another way than their vows have committed them to for life, just as some priests are. But this does not mean that their original call was wrong. It's always greener on the other side. A lifelong journey without ongoing reinforcement or full positive support from the people you are most committed to makes another way seem more appropriate or attractive. In Corinthians 7:33-35 we hear that God would like us to be free of anxieties: that unmarried persons are concerned how they may please the Lord, but married persons must be concerned with how they may please their spouses. They are divided in how they may serve the Lord and their spouse. The married deacons in the permanent diaconate program are reminded that they received the Sacrament of Matrimony first, before they receive Holy Orders, so they have a first priority to their marriage before their commitment to the diaconate. We are not diminishing married life or single life by calling men to the priesthood as single persons. We are asking them to "know what you want - be willing to pay the price." There is a role for married men in the Church and it's time for increased respect for their role as Godly men. There is also a legitimate call for single men to the priesthood. Many a wife could plead for these men not to have the two masters to serve; one will not be loved or served as well as the other. Jack Fernan, Madison Clothing at church disrespectfulTo the editor: I am absolutely shocked by the way some people dress when they attend Mass at our church, many of them in short shorts. They have no respect for the Holy Eucharist. This same lack of respect also applies to some of the people in various ministries, including ushers, readers, musicians, and Eucharistic ministers. To me it is very disgusting to see a Eucharistic minister standing at the altar in shorts and distributing Communion wearing shorts. There is no respect at all for the Eucharist. Am I the only person bothered by this disgraceful and disrespectful display? George H. Boerke, Madison
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